EsterCobe52 Week 45 // Self Portrait

This is ALWAYS a tough one for me. I have never been a fan of photographs taken of myself. It usually takes me a bit to to warm up to my portrait. Because of this, you wont see many photographs of me posted online. I really struggle with that. However, years later I will really like what I looked like in any photograph. Its something that I work on weekly. Currently, I take a portrait of myself each week and work on liking it enough to share.

After I had my kids I gained an extra 10 pounds and regardless of what I do it stays with me. Then too, I started getting acne in my late thirties. Yes, I know I am beautiful, and I know I am a fierce woman who birthed and nursed babies. I am super duper sensitive too and struggle to talk about it. To expose this truth is huge, and hopefully a step in the right direction. I doubt most would realize this about me too. Its doesn’t seem like the Molly they know. So here it is… its not that I don’t love to show up and be me, I just don’t love looking at photographs of myself.

The positive spin is it makes me incredibly sensitive to how my clients are feeling during photographs. I get it and I try my best to share all of the tips and tricks to make your photos amazing <3

I took the below photos. Each a bit different. The first is a moody one to show emotion, the second is a fun one with reflection and the last demonstrates my in studio look <3 Love the diversity <3

Tips on how to do a self portrait

  • Use a camera that allows you to see your own face. This way you can be sure of how you look while taking the shot
  • Turn the grid on your camera screen to make sure you are centered or have good composition
  • A tripod will be your best friend. It never tires of your 100 test shots and wont huff when you move it all over too get the best position.
  • Use a self timer in your hand or set the timer on your camera to shoot after 10 seconds.
  • TAKE A LOT of pictures and pick your favorite!
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